Sometimes, can you really blame NSFs for hating NS?
I mean, when you have to bear the brunt of mistakes you never made...
When you had to surrender your privileges in order to appease someone else...
When you have a superior who accuses you of not trying hard enough even though you did...
Ask yourself this: would you take pleasure when someone does something for you not out of willingness but out of, perhaps, fear or a lack of a choice to say no?
Maybe some power-loving egomaniacs do. But I certainly don't.
Really, some people do not understand the epitome of leadership and command. It is not an authority for you to mouth off someone just because you are pissed off, not for you to "arrow" someone to do your work because you can't quite be bothered to do it.
It is the ability to effectively guide people under you to the correct path of thought and conduct. The ability to gain trust based on what you could and should do. The ability to earn respect, so much so that if one day should you be on the battlefield with your men, they would use their bodies as shields to safekeep your life.
It is just so sad. Somehow I could feel the anguish of a man wrongly accused of a crime he never committed. The feeling of a sacrificial lamb.
And people should just learn not to compare. Do you ever compare the job scopes of, say, a doctor and an engineer? No? So that's why you also do not compare the perks and stress each job brings, isn't that so?
10 more months to go. Damn, days never seemed to pass by as slowly as of late...
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